In Western cultures, birthdays are a big deal. People mark their birthdays on Facebook, get birthday wishes from friends and family, and generally make a fuss about their special day every year. In Japan, however, this is not the case. There is no widespread tradition of marking one’s birthday with friends or family. This article will explain why and what the impact of this non-birthday tradition is on Japanese society and some of the alternative practices that have sprung up in response to it. Let’s take a look at why the birthday tradition in Japan doesn’t exist and why that might be a good thing.
Why there is no widespread birthday tradition in Japan
The first thing we need to understand is why there is no widespread birthday tradition in Japan. This is partly because of the slightly different attitudes towards time and aging in Japanese society. In Western society, you are considered to be one year older on the first of January each year, no matter what day or time of day you were born. In Japanese society, however, you are considered to be one year older on the day of the vernal equinox, which happens in the Northern Hemisphere on March 21st and in the Southern Hemisphere on September 21st. This difference in the way that time is celebrated affects the way that birthdays are celebrated. This is because the equinox happens at a different time every year and has nothing to do with the date on which you were born. This means that the date on which you were born is completely irrelevant in determining your age. It is possible to be born on the equinox but to celebrate a different date entirely.
The reasons that the birthday tradition doesn’t exist
There are two reasons that the birthday tradition doesn’t exist in Japanese society. Firstly, the Japanese New Year celebrations are arguably even bigger than birthday celebrations in other cultures. This is because the Japanese New Year (or Oshōgatsu) marks the end of the old year and the beginning of a new one. In Japanese culture, this is a very significant moment as it is symbolic of a fresh start, a clean slate, and a chance to improve yourself. Oshōgatsu is celebrated at the same time every year and is therefore something that can be planned for. Birthday celebrations, however, have no set date and are celebrated at different times each year depending on the individual. This makes celebrating them less convenient than celebrating the New Year.
The impact of a non-birthday tradition
The non-birthday tradition has had a significant impact on Japanese society in a number of ways. Firstly, it has meant that the Japanese New Year has become even larger and more significant than it was previously. As the birthday tradition has faded, the New Year celebrations have grown in importance and size. This has led to the New Year being celebrated as a national holiday in Japan. It has also meant that the birthday celebrations of people who are born at the equinox are less important than they are in other cultures. As the equinox celebrations are dependent on the time of year and not the date, these celebrations happen at different times each year. This means that people who are born on the equinox will have different birthdays every year and therefore have no day that they can mark as their birthday. This has led many people to simply not celebrate their birthdays at all.
People go on dates on their birthdays instead
Although the birthday celebrations themselves are less important in Japanese society, people are still very keen on celebrating their loved ones whenever possible. This means that the non-birthday tradition has actually led to people celebrating their loved ones on any day that is convenient for them. This may mean that people go out for a meal on a day other than their birthday, or that they celebrate their loved ones on their actual birthdays. This has meant that birthday celebrations have not actually disappeared from Japanese society, they have just moved to different dates. This is perhaps one of the best ways to celebrate special days and is certainly a positive thing in Japanese society.
Many Japanese people are too busy to celebrate on their birthdays
Although many people in Japan are too busy to celebrate their birthdays, they do still want to acknowledge their special days. This has led to the creation of what are known as “semi-birthdays”. These are artificial birthdays that people mark on any given day of the year that is convenient for them. This could be the day on which they start a new job, are promoted, or have a significant life event. People mark these semi-birthdays as a way of celebrating the special day and acknowledging that it is a significant date in their lives without having to celebrate it on their real birth date.
Many Japanese people do not have family nearby
Another reason why people might not celebrate their birthdays in Japan is that they do not have family nearby. If you do not have family nearby, marking your birthday can be a very isolating experience, especially if you do not have many friends either. In these cases, it is better to go out with friends or go on a date with your significant other on your birthday instead of spending the day alone.
There is an inherent sadness associated with birthdays in Japan
In many Western cultures, it is customary to celebrate your birthday with a party and for friends and family to mark the day by buying you a gift. In Japanese culture, it is customary to give gifts on certain special occasions, like on New Year’s Day, the spring equinox, and children’s birthdays. This means that birthdays are the only special occasion that does not have a corresponding gift-giving day. This has led to the notion that birthdays are a sad occasion in Japanese culture. As such, many people do not celebrate their birthdays in order to avoid the sadness that is associated with them. There are a number of ways to celebrate your special day in Japan. You can go out with friends or family on any given day that is convenient for you, or you can mark your birthday on any special occasion that is important to you and celebrate that instead. There is nothing wrong with enjoying your special day in Japan. Just make sure to enjoy yourself and don't worry about what others think. After all, it's your special day, so you should celebrate it in a way that makes you happy! Now that you know why the birthday tradition doesn’t exist in Japan, you might want to rethink the way you celebrate your special day. It could end up being a much more enjoyable experience for you.